Return to Sovereignty: This Isn’t Success — It’s Survival with Good Lighting
She didn’t break all at once—she fractured quietly, beneath the weight of pretending.
This is Part 1 of a Two-Part Post: Return to Sovereignty
🌿At the Threshold:
This month, inside the Return to Sovereignty series, we’re peeling back old layers and conditioning. We’re not just healing—we’re remembering.
If you’re done with the act… and ready to reclaim the truth beneath it, join me. I promise your sovereignty is not lost—it is only buried beneath the sediment, waiting for you to rediscover it.
Prelude: A Quiet Return
There comes a moment—not loud, not dramatic—when the performance begins to crack. Not because you failed, but because your soul is done waiting.
This isn’t about reinvention; it’s about remembrance. A whisper that begins in the body, echoes through your spirit, and finally arrives in your voice.
What follows is the beginning of a sovereign awakening— a reflection of a sacred echo of a woman coming home to herself.
1. The Mirror Moment
“The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.” – Carl Jung
But I want to know what happens when one spends so long becoming someone you're not?
Do you wake up one day and the reflection staring back at you is... distant and polished, maybe, but not real?
Do you become a performer, a well-adapted survivor- one that hasn’t truly lived—not as herself?
2. The Quiet Ache of Pretending
There’s a soul fracture people rarely talk about—the one that forms when an individual has traded presence for performance.
When we smile through burnout, nod through discomfort, and shrink our truth to fit someone else’s comfort zone.
Raise your hand if you’re tired of faking it until you make it, because I am.
In some areas of my life, I appear “successful” when in reality I am dragging my dreams behind my body like an afterthought. Most days, that performance costs me more than it gives.
3. When Misalignment Became a Prison
I have betrayed myself. Not all at once, of course, but slowly, through years of emotional fatigue and forced function. I have swapped burnout stress for hustle stress, telling myself it’s all for a purpose, all for a vision.
But the more I chase growth, the more I witness the quiet deterioration happening within.
I have made excuses to stay in places I have outgrown. I have over-functioned, pretending that it still fits—even when my soul whispers, this isn’t it.
“It’s just for now,” I try to convince myself. But “now” has lasted nine years.
The sovereign truth that I feel embarrassed to admit? It feels like a life sentence without parole. A weighted version of life I didn’t choose— one where doing everything “right” still isn’t enough, especially in a system that only rewards obedience.
4. The Disappearing Sovereignty
Even though I’ve kept my voice— said “No,” asked “Why,” held onto my values— somewhere in the striving, my sovereignty began to slip.
I started questioning myself, began to work harder to be seen, and lost confidence in the noise of external expectations. I downplayed my feelings, told myself to be grateful for what I had, and spent hours trying to convince myself it wasn’t that bad.
But it is that bad— every day becomes a battle between who I was, who I am, and who I want to be.
And somewhere in that performance, I began ignoring the internal grief building up— like layers of sediment settling on my soul.
Grief that buried the disappointment of becoming someone I promised I’d never be.
5. The Wake-Up Call
Then one day, I looked in the mirror and barely recognized the woman staring back.
WTF, I thought— How did F*CK I get here? Trying to prove my worth, watching others steal my ideas, and silently retreating into the shadows.
This isn’t success-this is survival with good lighting.
I don’t want to survive anymore, I want to remember.
6. The Return to Sovereignty Begins Here
So if you're reading this and feel like you’re disappearing in plain sight— know that you're not alone.
The path back isn’t flashy. It’s not branded. It’s not perfectly lit for Instagram. But it is real.
It starts with a single truth:
You were never meant to earn your worthiness through performance.
🌀 Reflection Prompts:
Where have you been performing instead of living?
What part of yourself feels fractured or forgotten?
Where have you been surviving with good lighting… instead of coming home to your soul?
Stay tuned for Part 2: From Survival to Sovereignty
Until next time, let your inner compass guide you. 🧭
💫 Tara
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